Are you too choosy that you will never find a guy to date?

Still single in your 30s if you grown out of being a girl into a woman later than your peers, and 40s, are you too choosy to secure yourself a date? This is something that might not do you good in company hire in the future. This is because with the emergence of AI today, hard skills might not be required anymore, where these jobs could be done by AI. It is reported that Company of the future will be looking for candidates with soft skills and people skill to hire. Not doing well in date could mean that you lack these qualities. You have to be more intelligent, since your strategy still doesn’t work for you.

You are well educated and has set yourself many criteria in choosing a partner. How does it work, since you are still single for so long? One thing for sure, the many criteria that you have doesn’t make you a more sophisticated woman, but more likely you are making yourself lost in dating. For instance, could you be mixing some qualities that company looks for in a candidate to your own search criteria? It is good beside the guy that you are looking for has leadership qualities you can be proud of him, but not mix with his personality that you will love him for. If you do not realize this, you might need to hire a date like a human resource of a company. Could you improvise like some women who has strategy such as to expand their search to men who are younger then them or are foreigner.

Learn about this, choosing a date on a simpler terms not so intensely, where the search criteria will be more palatable for yourself could be looked into.

As a student and teenager, girls look for guys who is fun, cute or mature.

Women seeking marriage successfully look for man who is simply nice or love her. With the same goal of having a family. These women make the best of bad situations in a relationship, and tactfully find a balance in compromise.

If you are still not letting go on your complex thought of a partner, dating and love is not a hard topic like school subjects, you can’t score full or 80 marks. There needs to rethink your strategy. Learn from the Japanese 20% and 80% pay forward business rule. You could try looking for guys who matches 20% of your criteria, it is already a success. Then simply let the guy works towards you, and let the relationship works it’s magic, for the other 80%. I am sure this will definitely work out.

Why 20% of the criteria that you are looking for, is because you probably have an over list, proven especially since you are still single at this age. Honestly all guys doesn’t carry all that you are looking for in themselves alone, except some criteria. And if you are looking for a committed man, it is most likely that he won’t spend all his money in traveling with you all the time. He would rather get a house or a car. Besides when man have money, they will also have to think of taking care of their woman. Unlike women who has money and are still single in middle age, only thinks about themselves, financially not thinking about the relationship or the family, big difference to the man. Honestly, a nice and committed man will also rather concentrate his energy on his career or business making money, and spend most of his time resting at home from the tiring work, than to spend all the time with you in all your activities and travelling throughout the year. You will have to find a middle ground like maybe just to travel with him once or twice a year and help out with the family expenses. If you are unwilling, then good luck you will never find a committed man to date.

What you will find is man who pay lip service in all your interests and hobbies. Maybe if they are willing and has a little budget, they will act on it with you for a while. Most likely they will come up to wanting something free from you by being a populist. It is to get you in bed with them for as long as you don’t find out.

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