Are you destined not to get married to a man anymore?

Are you still single in your 30s and beyond? Marriage might not be your thing that you are looking for anymore. Perhaps you find you have pass the age and do not want to have children already. Or you prefer to have other commitments in your career, business, interests or hobbies. Yet your are lonely, because you do not have a partner like many other people. You want to be dating and have a companion to a relationship.

A lot of guys passed you on dating. They doesn’t seem to understand what you are going for. If it’s marriage, it’s marriage the guys will be looking for. Your bio simply doesn’t match that kind of relationship at all.

Maybe we can translate what kind of a relationship you can have from the men. Know about ‘ons’ one night stand, or ‘fwb’ friends with benefits? Men has long known about having complex relationship by naming the kind of status they want to have with you, so that it can be marketable to the women.

Women should popularize a new term for the new kind of relationship without marriage commitment. So that it helps the men to understand you better, therefore attracts the attention of the like minded men. This can be call ‘middle love’ or you are ‘middle dating’. With this new category of relationship, it will definitely help navigate lovers to their right partner.

This can also benefits greatly for women who are divorce to find a companion, without committing to marriage in the future of a relationship. Because these women might have alimony and other benefits to consider giving up, so marriage is not their thing. Besides they might not want get a new father for their children if they happen to have.

Then the great thing about ‘middle love’ is that, as a women you need not have to take that risk in providing financial to the guy if you are earning a lot. You could go dutch throughout the relationship. It will greatly widen your choice for men to those who has a stable career, but not earning as much as you. You are freed and ready to date very soon. In ‘middle love’, since it’s not a marriage, if the guys turns to be your financial burden, you can always change a new date.

Further, you are free to choose any guys out of interest and curiosity. Without the idea of marriage, Without the idea of marriage, you can find any guy who is at least interested in your interests and hobby and willing to do them together with you. Just go on a dating relationship and enjoy yourself with your companion.

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