Are you engaging in the right hobbies and interests to make you attractive to your date?

Looking for the right guy to share your interest or hobbies is a good way to grow a relationship. Even said that, there should be things that you should look out for that is not so desirable to a potential guy.

‘YOLO’ stands for ‘you only live once’, a term used by many single women who finds reason to pursuit many interest and hobbies, to relax from work or to simply takes their time and thoughts away from being single, to improve themselves. Putting in all those interests and hobbies in your online dating profile, there are at least three kinds of interests hobbies which is a red flag for guys.

The first two kinds are highly dangerous activities. They are promoted commercially and attracted quite a number of women engaging in them. It is scuba diving and Thai boxing. These two activities doesn’t goes well with the guys, simply because they see it that you are not taking care of your body. What if next time you have children to take care of. Are you going to let the children engaged in such a dangerous things too? Let’s give it a thought further. These two activities are not covered in insurance policy. So if any accident happened to you, expect a guy would not jump into a relationship where they have to take up the burden of taking care of you right from the start. Worse, you will end up alone and penniless too.

Then there is your interest to travel, and the dream of traveling around the world. It is something exciting. Think again, you might be overly exploited economically from your life happiness. Though expect it to not go so well with guys too. Pardon it’s not because you are not homely enough. It’s just that guys have other commitments that they think of for their budget. Such as getting a car or saving for their future family. Most likely he will think that you will have no savings for a family and to buy a house too at the end of the day. Therefore don’t expect to attract a man if you wants to travel around the world together, except some planned holidays. If you look at mature men and is thinking of getting one, you can start by looking at this point if it matches yours. Sure most men when they are young, they have many hobbies and interests like you too. But when men gets older and life becomes practical, his only interest sums down to only making money, doing business or investment. You shall see if you can fit in.

Looks like some interest and hobbies are out of your list. Try to engage in those that would appear attractive to the guy. Even perhaps more ladies can start businesses to provide personal grooming hobby or something like kimono group for women would be great. These will definitely make guys see you as more feminist and attractive.

Besides during school years dating is easier. It becomes challenging when we grow older. Matching interest and hobbies should be a plus points only. It’s still better to rely on old school thoughts to align values, personality and character with your partner. Which will goes a long way in your love. Your many hobbies and interests is there to take your time away from boredom. Be prepare to take away some of them if the right one comes along, so that you can keep each other company. Don’t feel too pressured to perfectly align all your hobbies and interests with your partner, because there’s no such thing as perfection.

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