How to get that eligible guy to date you if you are a successful career women?
In the mist of competition to get that eligible guy, you should know more about this that guys that are successful and well to do have plenty of women throwing themselves at them. These 2 out of 10 guys are spoiled for choice. It is likely if they want to settle down, they would look for a woman who is young, pretty, smart, able to give birth, supportive and caring. They don’t mind if the women has humble career and finance, because these guys have it already. So the competition out there is very stiff with the wide selections.
The average women stands the best chance with these eligible guys, because they are generally generous and willing to invest. Another group of women who stands out are women entrepreneur. They are most willing to invest even finances if they found the eligible who is ambitious too. Except that this group of women mostly has a self barrier with them. They always feels that they are always not economically enough to have a family and children.
Then there are the group of women who are successful in their career and earning above average. Usually they place their eligible guys selection with the priority that the guys career has to be good and be earning more than them. Eligible guys appreciate that these women are proud of them, but does not favor giving their relationships to these women, because they are too practical, not loving them as they fail. It would be worse for these women if in their 40s and is still so practical. Chances of landing with an eligible guys is absolutely zero. Look at it this way, does these single women prefer the guys to like them only when they are young and pretty, but leaves them when they are old, fat and ugly. So it’s about the same.
Although saying, there’s still a way for this women to at least stand out from the competition. They have to at least invest in some finances commitment, otherwise a relationship will not happen to them. It’s a good practical solution. These women can try marketing themselves like this to these eligible guys. That they provide chances that if in a relationship with them, these guys will not see their finances depreciate.
Now the strategy is right, then next is for these women to take practical steps and actions. To compete these women have to know how to price themselves smartly. They can propose to the guys that they will like to invest in a fund with the guy. The contribution is 2 part for the woman and 1 part for the guy. And if the woman decides to leave him if he fails in his career, then they will split the funds 50 50. These will offer a practical security to the guys who will consider them seriously for the little investment effort.
Then again if these women who are willing to give the lesser guys who are still striving out to succeed a chance, they can consider contributing 1 part to the fund and the guy 2 part, and split 50 50 if decided to go separate ways. This will offer the women a practical safety net if the guys do succeed one day and stray from the relationship when a lot of women throw themselves at him later. So we can call this kind of relationship that the women build upon on financial practicality first as the ‘provider relationship’.
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